Receiving and Giving Criticism as a Christian

It is not usually fun to receive criticism. Even when it is constructive, we often don't like hearing there is a potential problem with us or what we've done. The reality is that all of us will face criticism. Some of it is right and some of it is off. All of it should be filtered through who we are in light of the cross of Jesus.

I recently saw an article by Justin Taylor that reminded me about a GREAT article I read while in seminary by Alfred Poirier entitled "The Cross and Criticism." I hope you will make time to read it. We will all face criticism, and it is good to have a biblical perspective on how to handle it.

Here is are two excerpts:

If I know myself as crucified with Christ, I can now receive another's criticism with this attitude: "You have not discovered a fraction of my guilt. Christ has said more about my sin, my failings, my rebellion and my foolishness than any man can lay against me. I thank you for your corrections. They are a blessing and a kindness to me. For even when they are wrong or misplaced, they remind me of my true faults and sins for which my Lord and Savior paid dearly when He went to the cross for me. I want to hear where your criticisms are valid." 

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I do not fear man's criticism for I have already agreed with God's criticism. And I do not look ultimately for man's approval for I have gained by grace God's approval