How to Confess When You Sin against Someone

Confessing sin to someone you've wronged is a hard thing to do well, but it is an important part of our relationships in this fallen world. And it is a great picture of the gospel when done well. If you are looking for some help in this area, you might want to check out Peacemaker ministries.

I really appreciate their ministry (their book Peacemaking for Families is great- we use it in premarital counseling). Below is "The seven "A's" of Confession" that they have put together.  Maybe you'll find it helpful.

1. Address everyone involved (All those whom you affected) 
2. Avoid, "if," "but," and "maybe" (Do not try to excuse your wrongs) 
3. Admit specifically (Both attitudes and actions) 
4. Acknowledge the hurt (Express sorrow for hurting someone) 
5. Accept the consequences (Such as making restitution) 
6. Alter your behavior (Change your attitudes and actions) 
7. Ask for forgiveness 

See Matthew 7:3-5; 1 John 1:8-9; Proverbs 28:13. 

See more at: http://www.peacemaker.net/site/c.aqKFLTOBIpH/b.958153/k.7417/Seven_As_of_Confession.htm#sthash.wiUzkGwb.dpuf